SIDS...
        THE SILENT KILLER

        Welcome To The RAOK TLC
        SIDS Awareness Page





        DID YOU KNOW...

        Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is the
        "sudden death of an infant under one year of age
        which remains unexplained after a thorough case
        investigation, including performance of a
        complete autopsy, examination of the death scene,
        and review of the clinical history"



        Many more children die of SIDS in a year than all
        who die of cancer, heart disease, pneumonia,
        child abuse, AIDS, cystic fibrosis and muscular
        dystrophy combined.

        Most researchers now believe that babies who die
        of SIDS are born with one or more conditions that
        make them especially vulnerable to stresses that
        occur in the normal life of an infant,
        including both internal and external influences.

        SIDS occurs in all types of families and is
        largely indifferent to race or socioeconomic level.

        SIDS is unexpected, usually occurring in
        otherwise apparently healthy infants from
        1 month to 1 year of age.

        Most deaths from SIDS occur by the end of the
        sixth month, with the greatest number
        taking place between 2 and 4 months of age.

        A SIDS death occurs quickly and is often
        associated with sleep, with no signs of suffering.

        More deaths are reported in the fall and winter
        (in both the Northern and Southern Hemispheres) and
        there is a 60- to 40-percent male-to-female ratio.

        A death is diagnosed as SIDS only after all other
        alternatives have been eliminated: SIDS is a
        diagnosis of exclusion.







        GOD'S LITTLE CHILD

        Mommy please don't be sad,
        I miss you so much too.
        It's beautiful here, but I worry a lot about you.
        I sleep with angels watching me...
        there is only love up here.
        I am never lonely or afraid
        because God is so very near.

        I walk with Jesus every day,
        He is very kind and loving.
        Don't worry Mom, He holds my hand
        when we cross a golden street.
        I never cry or hurt myself.
        I see Grandpa every day.
        I play and laugh and sing a lot
        and I hear you when you pray.

        Please Mommy, don't be mad at God,
        you see He loves me too.
        And even though you are not with me,
        I am really still with you
        ~Author Unknown







        SIDS IS:

        The major cause of death in infants from 1 month
        to 1 year of age, with most deaths occurring
        between 2 and 4 months

        Sudden and silent--the infant was seemingly healthy

        Currently, unpredictable and unpreventable

         Death that occurs quickly, often associated with
        sleep and with no signs of suffering

        Determined only after an autopsy, an examination
        of the death scene, and a review of the clinical history

        Designated as a diagnosis of exclusion





        SIDS is not:

        Caused by vomiting and choking, or minor illnesses
        such as colds or infections

        Caused by the diphtheria, pertussis, tetanus (DPT)
        vaccines, or other immunizations

        Child abuse

        The cause of every unexpected infant death







        PERSONAL THOUGHTS

        Sadly, I never gave much thought about SIDS until our
        family was visited by this silent killer...our lives and
        hearts have forever been changed by the loss of one
        tiny angel named Tamar! We are not alone in our grief...
        7.000 families each year experience this same
        devastating loss...That is nearly one baby every
        hour of every day. This is so very, very sad!

        PERSONAL SIDS STORIES

        Bradlee's Room Remembering You
        My SIDS Story Our Guardian Angel








        A TOUCHING POEM

        Mother, please don't mourn for me;
        I'm still here, though you don't see.
        I'm right by your side each night and day
        and within your heart I long to stay.

        My body is gone but I'm always near
        I'm everything you feel, see or hear.
        My spirit is free, but I'll never depart
        as long as you keep me alive in your heart.

        I'll never wander out of your sight--
        I'm the brightest star on a summer night.
        I'll never be beyond your reach--
        I'm the warm moist sand when you're at the beach.

        I'm the colorful feves when fall comes around
        and the pure white snow that blankets the ground.
        I'm the beautiful flowers of which your so fond--
        The clear cool water in a quiet pond.

        I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in the spring;
        The first warm raindrop that April will bring.
        I'm the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine,
        and you'll see that the face in the moon is mine.

        When you start thinking there's no one to love you,
        you can talk to me through the Lord above you.
        I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees,
        and you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.

        I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep
        and the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep.
        I'm the smile you see on baby's face.
        Just look for me, Mommy, I'm everyplace!
        Author unknown







        POSSIBLE PREVENTIVE MEASURES

        A study conducted at Wilhelmina Children's Hospital in
        Ulrecht, Netherlands, concluded that babies who sleep
        with pacifiers are 20 times less likely to die of SIDS.
        Researchers believe that babies who suck pacifiers are
        not likely to change sleeping positions during the night
        to go from back-sleeping to tummy-sleeping. Another
        explanation could be that babies who suck pacifiers
        learn to keep their noses open as breathing passages.
        This study does not suggest that the use of pacifiers
        prevent SIDS.

        Placing healthy babies on back or side when sleeping.

        Maintaining a smoke free environment before and after birth.

        Not allowing the baby to become too hot.

        Breastfeeding if possible.







        Please Visit the RAOK Sids Memorial Wall





        These beautiful quilt squares have been added to the
        RAOK Quilt For The Cause Webring








        If you'd like, you may take this graphic.
        Please attach this link to it:
        http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Creek/9369/project8/sids.html





        LINKS

        The SIDS Network SIDS Links
        National SIDS Resource Center
        American SIDS Institute SIDS International
        Facts About SIDS SIDS Australia Online
        The Canadian Foundation for the Study of Infant Deaths
        CFSID National Memorial Wall
        Illness, Health Care Information Resources
        Babyhood S.I.D.S. SIDS Chat
        Sudden Infant Death Syndrome Alliance
        SIDS - The Silent Killer Sids Talk
        SIDS: The Smallest Angels Memorial Wall
        Arizona Sids Alliance One Small Soul
        M.I.S.S.- Mothers In Sympathy & Support
        SIDS Message Board Wellness Web
        American Academy of Pediatrics
        Pampers Parenting Institute: SIDS




        This TLC Project is dedicated to sweet Baby Angel Tamar

        This RAOK T.L.C. project was made possible with
        the help of the wonderful members of the T.L.C
        committee and all their suggestions and ideas.
        The following Members should be mentioned for
        their contributions:

        Webpage by Chilady
        Background & Url/Link Research by Chrissy
        Url/Link Research by Maggie
        Link back graphic by Sue Cat
        Quilt Square by Patti
        Url/Link Research by Heather
        Quilt Square by Gramma Nancy
        Graphic and URL/link research by Zack
        Url/Link Research by Diane
        Url/Link Research by Mellocup9
        Graphics by Mrs Owl
        Graphic by Kodesmom
        Graphic by Teresa
        Url/Link Research by Snugs
        Our TLC Committee Leader Kind Soul




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