Father's Day and Mother's day calls for a different focus than most holidays. What is important is that the holiday be special to the parent who is being honored. Do something that will mean alot to your parent. Have FUN showing your love and appreciation! Here are some ideas:
        *Before Father's Day have all the children write about their favorite memories. Assemble these memories into a scrapbook.

        * Make a list of the qualities of your father for which you are thankful. Tell or write about these qualities to your dad.

        * At dinner or lunch offer a special prayer of thanks for your father.

        * Give your Dad a special outing together. Do something that you like to do together. And if you have dinner at Dad's cook something special for him, and don't forget to wash the dishes! GO to Jamie's Kitchen for some great ideas for a Father's Day menu.

        Father's Day Gifts And Art


        BARBECUE APRON FOR DAD

        Materials needed:
        a cotton dish towel or a terry-cloth towel,
        ribbon for tying,
        a needle and thread
        crayons
        Use a dish towel or terry-cloth towel that your mother will let you have, or buy a special one. Be sure it is large enough to fit Dad.
        Cut the ribbon into two pieces. Sew each piece to a corner of the towel. Now you have an apron.
        If you use a white dish towel, you can draw a colorful picture on it with crayons. To keep the picture from rubbing off turn the apron, picture-side down, on a damp cloth. With grown-up help, press with a hot iron.

        Another idea is to buy colored aprons and rubber stamps from the craft store, or use 1/2 of a potatoe and carve your own picture to paint on the apron, then letter a cute saying on the front of the apron...like "DAD'S GRILL", #1 DAD, "FATHER COOKS BEST". There are lots of ideas on stamping material at your craft store.

        CLAY BOWL

        Materials needed:
        hardening clay,
        tempera paint,
        liquid detergent,
        shellac,
        and an old sheet or a piece of cloth.
        1. Lay cloth on tqble or floor. Put a large lump of clay on it. Squeeze and mash the clay to get rid of air holes and soft spots, and roll it into a ball.
        2. Punch a hole in the center of the ball. Use your fingers to make the hole larger and larger until the clay is shaped like a bowl.
        3. Work your fingers out and up to make the sides of the bowl thinner. When the bowl is shaped as you want it, smooth the inside and the outside.
        4. You can stick a thin roll of clay to the outside of the bowl for a handle.
        Painting the Bowl
        Now the bowl is ready to paint. Mix tempera with about a spoonful of detergent. Clay is oily, and the detergent helps the paint to stick to the bowl. If the paint does not stick well add more detergent. When the paint is dry cover the bowl with shellac to protect the paint. After it drys you can paint "I Love Dad" or add pictures.


        Molded Baskets...
        Give each child an 8x8 inch sheet of prepasted wallpaper.  Help the children dip their pieces of wallpaper into a pan of warm water and then mold each one over the top of a can.  When the wallpaper is dry, let the children remove them from the cans and turn them upside down.  Have the children add handles to their baskets by gluing the ends of strips of construction paper to the sides. You can also paste pictures and string or rope for decorations.

        Father's Day Plant

         The next year we bought clay pots and painted the children's hands with
        acrylic paint using one of those foam brushes.  Then we had them hold the pot
        with both hands.  We helped them carefully lift their hands off the pot and
        immediately wash their hands in a sink of soapy water  (that  was the fun
        part for the kids!!).  They painted around the rim of the pot with a
        contrasting color.  We did this for Fathers Day.  Using a gold paint pen we
        wrote Happy Fathers Day and the year.  We then put a plant in the pot.  The
        dads loved these.   Again for the infants we did footprints..just seemed easier
        and safer since they don't put their feet in their mouths.
         

        Handprint Flower

        Mount a piece of white paper on top of a larger piece of  colored construction paper. Paint the child's palm of hand any color he wants.  Have him press down onto about the center or a little above.  Next paint the child's fingers using another color of choice and have him press down above the palm print.(A perfect hand print now.) When the paint is dry the child may add a cut out heart for the center of the flower.  Leaves and stem using construction paper.  Here is the poem to provide:

        A piece of me
        I give to you.
        I painted this flower
        To say "I love you."

        The heart is you.
        The hand is me.
        To show we are friends-
        The best there can be.

        I hope you will save it
        And look back someday
        At the flower we shared
        On your special day.
            -Kathleen Lademan

        Flower Pot Turtles

        Materials needed:
         1 small flowerpot (very small)
         acrylic paint
         sponge for painting
         black marker
         tacky glue

         Turn flowerpot upside down and sponge paint.  Any color looks cute.  Let dry.  Cut head shape out of green sponges, plus 4 legs and a tail.  With marker, draw eyes on head.  Glue head, legs and tail to flowerpot.  The head, legs, and tail are glued to the edges of the pot opening.

         Message Bird

          Carefully wash a large, empty frozen orange juice can.  Paint the outside of the can and let it dry.  Glue a clamp clothespin in place for the  birds beak.  The part of the clothespin that you squeeze should be even with the top of the can, and the clamp part should be pointing down.  Glue a bottle cap on each side of the beak for eyes, with the inside of the caps facing outward.  Punch two circles from yellow paper and glue them in the caps for pupils.  Put a pencil and some squares of paper inside the can.  Messages can
        be written on a square of the paper and clamped in the bird's beak.

         Clay FootPrints

         Every year I make an impression of the child's feet and hand using homemade
        clay (the kind you cook on the stove).  Then I melt scented candles and pour into the impressions.  When the wax dries I scratch their name and the year into the flat surface.  They love it.  One of my kids has a set of 4 already.  The parents love it.  This year's color and scent is
        green/eucalyptus. Directions follow:

         Cooked Clay Recipe
         2c flour
         1c salt
         2c water
         2tbsp cream of tartar
         1/4 c oil
         food coloring is optional for this project

         Put all ingredients into a pot and cook on low, stirring constantly.  When mixture thickens, put onto plate and cover with saran wrap and let cool.  To make impressions of the kids' feet I put the clay in an empty wipe box and have them step into the box and make an impression of their foot.

         Then melt scented candles or paraffin with a piece of crayon for color. Use a lot of caution, because candle wax is very flammable - in fact, use a double boiler to be on the safe side - and pour into the impressions. I do this at night when no one is around.  When the wax dries I scratch their name and the year into the flat surface.

         Candle for Parents Gift

         Take a baby food jar. Tear different colored pieces of tissue. paper. Cover the jar using a paintbrush with glue diluted slightly with water and attach the pieces of tissue paper. Throw a few sprinkles of gold or silver sparkles. Add ribbon around the top and place small votive candle in jar. Before making
        test candle size with baby food jar, as not all jars are the same so the candle sometimes will not fit.

         Dish Handprints

        Here is another idea for handprints, most of us have done something similar to this, so this is a twist on an old idea:

          Materials needed:

          Planter coaster (bottom dish under a planter) from a pottery or terra cotta
        planter
          Green or red paint
          White paint
          Paintbursh
          Toothbrush
          Ribbon, lace or raffia
          Optional-clear varnish, cutouts from material
          Hot glue/gun

          Have children paint the dish green or red, completely covering the dish. When dry, let the children use a toothbrush with a small amount of white paint on it and "fling" it toward the dish to create white speckles on the dish.  When dry, paint the child's hand white and let them make a handrprint inside the dish.  Let dry.  You can either leave the dish as is for a gift, or do one or more of the following:
          *Place cutouts of hearts or something around the hand and put a clear
        varnish over them so they stick to the dish.
          *Varnish over the handprint for a better seal, and to add a little shine.
          *Make a raffia or fabric bow to glue on the top for decoration
         .

        Three Kisses For Dad

        Before hand, you or your children will prepare a little package with 3 wrapped
        kisses.  You could use circles of tissue paper and ribbons.  With these packages on their hands, children will sing:

         Three Kisses for Father
        (The More We Get Together)

         Three ki-isses for father, for father, for father
         Three ki-isses for father on his special day.

         On his special day, on his special day,
         Three ki-isses for father on his special day!
         >>Cleide

        Card Or Book For Dad


        Use this along with a gift you've made as part of a card or make a book.
        You sew the buttons on my clothes   (glue button on this page)
        You gave me a hankie for my nose     (kleenex on this one)
        You make good things for me to eat    (picture from magazine)
        You buy me candy for a treat              (glue piece of candy on)
        You wash my clothes and mend my socks(picture from mag and a cut our sock)
        Dear Father, I love you lots and lots!!(big heart - can put childs picture in it)

         Father's Day Kisses


         You will need 2 wrapped candy kisses, 1 plastic spoon, a 4x4 piece of
         netting, and ribbon.Place the two kisses back to back in the bowl of the spoon. Cover with the netting and tie with small ribbon.  To the ribbon's bow attach the following poem:
         "Happy Father's Day!
         A spoonful of love
         And a couple of wishes,
         That you enjoy your
         Father's Day kisses!"
         

        Father's Day Games




        Father May I...
        Select one child to be the father who stands at one end of the room. The other children must take turns asking "Father may I take ______ ." The blank may stand for baby steps, giant steps, frog leaps etc.
        The mother grants the wish only if the child has said Father may I. The first one to father becomes father may I.

          Father's Day Songs And Fingerplays



        My Daddy Helps Me...
        (My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean)
        My daddy helps me when I'm sick.
        My daddy helps me when I'm blue.
        My daddy helps me when I'm sad.
        Thanks, Dad, for all that you do!
        You help, you help,
        You help me feel so much better.
        You help, you help,
        You help me feel so much better.

        My Special Friend...
        (Bingo)
        I have a very special friend
        And Daddy is his name-o.

        D-A-D-D-Y, D-A-D-D-Y, D-A-D-D-Y

        And Daddy is his name-0

        I Love Father..
        (Frere Jacques)
        I love father, I love father.
        Yes I do, yes, I do.
        All I want to say is
        Happy Father's Day!
        I love you, I love you!

        Fathers Day...
        (This Old Man)
        This is Dad;
        He works, too.
        Doing many family chores,
        He's a kind, pind, rindeky, rind,
        Loving kind of pal,
        Finding time for me, this gal.

        On Father's Day...
        (Oh Christmas Tree)
        On Father's Day,
        On Father's Day;
        Oh, how I love you, Dad.

        On Father's Day,
        On Father's Day;
        Oh, how I love you, Dad.

        You give me joy and happiness.
        I give you love-a hug and kiss.

        On Father's Day,
        On Father's Day;
        Oh, how I love you, Dad.

        Sometimes Dad Says...
        (Twinkle, Twinkle)
        Sometimes Dad says "don't do this"
        Sometimes Dad says "don't do that"
        Still he loves me that I know.
        Why? Because he tells me so.
        Sometimes Dad says let's do this.
        Sometimes Dad says "kiss, kiss, kiss!"

        I have my children sing it through one time without actions.
        The second time they shake their finger and freeze while one student
        imitates their Dad giving them the "what for". Then on the second line
        another one shakes their finger and says something. On the why they
        lift their shoulders with their hands out and wait three seconds and
        then say "because she tells me so". It is very cute.

        Books for Father's Day




        Jason's Father
        by


        I'll Love You Forever
        Robert Munsch
         

        Fathers Day Links

        Graphics by Anne

        Click here for the history of Father's Day, and a Father's Day Contest

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