The rules of a kajirae are simple if one feels them with their belly. The rules hold true in most Gorean rooms. one never need ask to enter, only when one wishes to leave.
A kajira never speaks in first person (i, me, my, mine) always in third person, (a girl/boy, this girl/boy, ones name).
A kajira will always show proper respect to All Free and all sisters and brothers. If there is a problem with a sister or brother take it to your Master/Mistress if you are un owned seek a Training Cordinator. The Ubar/Ubara/Jarl is never to be bothered with such. Most Gorean rooms have kajirae trainers that have the ear of a Free that can be of help.
A kajirae does not speak out against a Free or ones siblings. it is considered rude and selfish. For a kajirae' is there to please the Free People of the Room, not ones self. But if a kajirae feels un wanted and un needed then it is to be taken to a Master/Mistress you feel close with and things will be looked into.
A kajirae need never feel jealousy when their Master/Mistress seeks to FC (Free Contract) with another Free. It is not done to replace or lessen a kajira in the Free's eyes. It is often a Companionship with feelings. The kaji will be taken care of by Both Free.

A kajirae is to never hang their head unless in shame. A kaji will hold their head high and show they are pleased by the ko-lar upon their necks. The eyes however are to remain lowered to show one's submission.

No kajirae is to enter a room and upon seeing their Master/Mistress not presant to turn and wish to leave, All Free are to be served. Some may not have a kajirae or Their kajirae is not present. If this is seen it will be dealt with punishment.

No kajirae is to go and sit, there are always things to be done, food prepared, wood chopped for fires, cleaning, and always there are new kajirae entering that may have questions. Do not sit and sulk, make oneself usefull and your Master/Mistress will take note and you will be praised and often gifted with little items.